Signs Your Spouse Is Having A Cyber Affair
Blog / 08/07/2014

Signs Your Spouse Is Having A Cyber Affair By Kajay Williams   Internet use is growing steadily year on year and most homes now have a computer with internet access. But although the internet has many benefits, it can also bring infidelity right into the family home via chat rooms, social networking sites and message boards. Although a cyber affair may not ever involve any physical contact, it involves the same feelings as other types of affairs – secrecy, fantasy, excitement, as well as rationalization of the feelings the individual is having about their online contact. Despite the fact that an online affair may never, ever involve actual physical intimacy, it can have the potential to be just as devastating as a physical affair. Because internet affairs are a fairly new phenomenon, there is no set definition – and whether or not you believe your spouse is having a cyber affair or not will depend on the boundaries that you have set within your relationship. However, cyber affairs tend to include intimate conversations, often of an emotionally-charged or sexually-charged nature, cybersex or mutual masturbation sessions. Kimberly Young, a professor who directs the Center for Internet Addiction Recovery sees more women…

Signs of Cheating in a Long Distance Relationship
Blog / 07/19/2014

Signs of Cheating in a Long Distance Relationship By Kajay Williams   A long distance relationship can be fun and exciting. But one of the hardest things about a relationship that is played out over a long distance is the lack of closeness and intimacy, which can lead to cheating. It can be more difficult to spot cheating in a long distance relationship, as the lack of closeness makes it harder to monitor the behavior of your loved one. But there are a few signals to watch out for – here are some warning signs that your long distance relationship could be breaking down. Unavailability If your partner suddenly becomes unavailable, or changes their pattern of availability, it could indicate that they are cheating. If you usually keep in touch with phone calls every day, but the phone calls drop off to the occasional text or e-mail, it could be a warning sign, especially if you try to discuss their sudden unavailability and they become defensive. Absence and avoidance Most couples spend time together over the holidays, such as Christmas and New Year, and when they have extended time off work. But if your partner suddenly needs to go on…

7 Reasons Why Women Cheat
Blog / 07/11/2014

7 Reasons Why Women Cheat By Kajay Williams   The reasons for cheating seem to differ widely from woman to woman. But dig a little deeper and you’ll see that the underlying reasons for women cheating on their partners tend to be very similar; they are looking to fill an emotional need, looking to use their new partner as a means from escaping their old partner or even just because they are hard-wired to want to seek the best genes for their future children. In this article, we explore the common reasons for women cheating on their partners. 1. Emotional Void Research suggests that women are more likely to have an affair due to an emotional reason, rather than a sexual reason. According to Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, women tend to have an emotional connection with their extra-marital partner, and they are also more likely to have an affair due to feeling lonely. Winifred Reilly, a licensed marriage therapist, says that women often tell her they have cheated on their partner because they just wanted someone to “look into their eyes and make them feel sexy again”. The difference between men and women is that women tend to be…

How To Save Your Marriage And Avoid Divorce
Blog / 07/05/2014

How To Save Your Marriage And Avoid Divorce   Today, many marriages are found to be ending in divorce. Marriage is a start of relation, while divorce is an end. After passing of few days or months of married, life, some conflicts and bitterness may get started. Sometimes, the couple began to think about the divorce. However, divorce changes social trends and causes adverse effects for the both the partners. Hence, it is always recommended to save marriage stop divorce. Marriage has a great importance in the life of every human being as it gives personal and social stability and it is also necessary to satisfy your emotional and physical needs. It may be essential to get the prestigious social status as living a single or getting separated is not accepted by the society in some countries. It is not easy for a man or a woman to live alone whole life. After divorce, the individual may have to face physical, psychological and economical problems. The family life of the person is totally collapsed. Divorce also can cause sexual deprivation. Separation or divorce of the parents affects a lot to the children. It may give rise to psychological problems which…

7 Reasons Why Men Cheat
Blog / 06/18/2014

7 Reasons Why Men Cheat By Kajay Williams   People tend to think that men cheat on their partners because they want to have more sex. But recent research has suggested that men might be just as emotionally vulnerable as women when it comes to their relationships. Gary Neuman, a marriage counsellor, wanted to find out the reasons behind male infidelity, with some surprising results. 1. Emotional Void Gary found that out of the 200 cheating husbands that he surveyed, a whopping 48% of them cited emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason for their cheating. Gary believes that the reason why we may think that men are more interested in sex than emotional intimacy is because men are less likely to express their feelings to their partner, meaning that a woman may not know when their husband is seeking a little extra emotional intimacy or support. According to Gary, men believe that it is “unmanly” to ask for reassurance, which could push them into seeking emotional reassurance from elsewhere. 2. Having Friends Who Cheat A surprising fact to be revealed in Gary’s study showed that when men had good friends who had cheated on their partners, they were much more…

What Type Of People Are Likely To Cheat In Relationships?
Blog / 06/02/2014

What Type Of People Are Likely To Cheat In Relationships? By Kajay Williams   Society revolves around couples in relationships – it’s considered the norm for people to be in committed relationships. But what is becoming more and more normal is for people to cheat on their partners – in fact, recent statistics suggest that up to 10% of children are being raised by men who think they are their fathers, but aren’t. But what drives people to cheat? Who actually cheats? 1. People in power A recent study published in Psychological Science suggests that those in a position of power are most likely to cheat, regardless of gender – in fact, the study suggested that power at work was the single biggest indicator of cheating, and as women increasingly become more powerful in the working world, women are cheating just as much as men are. 2. Men whose partners are in a higher position of power Other research suggests that men who somehow feel as though their masculinity has been compromised – perhaps because their partners are in a position of power, or because they are financially dependent on their partner, are more likely to cheat, possibly because their…

How To Know If Your Spouse Is Truly Remorseful For the Affair
Blog / 05/22/2014

How To Know If Your Spouse Is Truly Remorseful For the Affair By Kajay Williams   An affair can devastate a marriage and a family, and sometimes, the only way that you can move on from the affair is to know that your spouse is truly remorseful for their actions. This is perhaps one of the only ways that the individual who has been cheated on can move on from the affair and start to rebuild the marriage – but if the spouse doesn’t seem particularly sorry or remorseful for their actions, it can be difficult to want to work on the marriage and it can even more difficult to forgive the cheating spouse for their actions. One of the problems with wanting to see remorse from your spouse is that they may be remorseful, but just not showing it outwardly. Because your spouse is going about their everyday business without moping around the house, you might think that they are not sorry for their actions – but your spouse could simply be working through their emotions internally, rather than externally. However, there are some key signs that indicate remorse and guilt following an affair. Here are some signs to…

Your Husband Going Through A Midlife Crisis?
Blog / 05/14/2014

Your Husband Going Through A Midlife Crisis?   Many adults can face the problem known as a ‘mid-life crisis’ which is characterized by emotional, physical and social changes in the middle age, the person may face the reality of waning the physical strength, frustrated vocational goals and unfulfilled personal dreams. These frustrations can lead to heavy impact on the married life. These problems may arise due to lack of mutual concern for the relationships and absence of communication which may give rise to some problems in marital life. If you wish to save marriage, midlife crisis husband can help in your goal. Almost every man may face some midlife issues. It is common with the men between the age group of 40 to 50/60 years. How will you identify that the man has a midlife crisis? There are some signs which let you about his midlife crisis. He may start to dress more carefully and youthfully and may get involved in some energetic activities. He may begin paying more attention towards his appearance, may talk about going on a diet, may join a gym or may dye his hair. He may complain about the appearance of his wife, he may…

3 Ways To Find the PERFECT Proposal For Your Girlfriend
Blog / 05/14/2014

3 Ways To Find the PERFECT Proposal For Your Girlfriend By Michael Webb, Author of “The Romantic’s Guide To Popping The Question” Did you know that the most memorable marriage proposals are also the most creative and unique? Problem is, the more you want to blow her away, the more frustrated and stressed you become by trying to come up with an original idea! Not to worry. Here are 3 ways to get your creativity flowing and come up with your winning proposal idea: 1. FIND THE “PERSONAL” TOUCH Aww… your girlfriend likes restaurants. Well guess what? So does everyone else! You need to dig for those unique and special things about your girlfriend that stand out, and use them as your starting point for proposal inspiration. Nothing speaks louder than a proposal that says, “I love you and understand you deeply” at the same time. If you’re stuck for ideas, grab a piece of paper and think back to all the memorable moments while you two were dating. What are her favorite things to do? What place does she hold dear to her heart? If she grew up on the beach, maybe you could take her to a high…

What Not Do After the Discovery of Your Spouse’s Affair
Blog / 05/05/2014

What Should You Not Do After the Discovery of Your Spouse’s Affair? By Kajay Williams   Although there are a number of things you may want to do after discovering an affair, once you’ve learned about the behavior of your spouse it is important not to lose your head and to keep calm, cool and collected. Stay confident and you’ll be much more able to ride out the affair and make the first steps in repairing your relationship. Here’s what not to do after the discovery of an affair. Show Your Spouse Your Best Side No matter how upset or hurt you are by your spouse’s behavior and no matter how much you want to be cold, angry or aggressive towards them, hold it back. Show them your best side and make yourself someone that they want to spend time with. A strong, happy, confident individual is desirable – whereas a needy, clingy and pathetic individual is not desirable in the slightest. If you want to display your feelings towards your spouse, speak to them in a calm and controlled way in a relaxed environment. Behaving in this way not only makes you desirable, but in enables you to talk…