4 Common Reasons Why People Cheat
Blog / 09/01/2014

4 Common Reasons Why People Cheat By Kajay Williams   We all know that people cheat – but why? What is it that drives people to actually stray from their partners? Infidelity is so complex and confusing because people even in the most prestigious positions have destroyed their careers and family by indulging in affairs. Research indicates people have affairs even when they report they are happy in their marriage. In this article, let’s look at a few reasons why people cheat. 1. Oxytocin & Arginine Vasopressin vs Testosterone Part of the answer lies in science. Research has shown us that we possess two hormones that are designed to make us monogamous, oxytocin and arginine vasopressin. Oxytocin is a “happy hormone” that is released in both males and females through touch, sex and other positive social signals, which helps couples to bond in pairs. Arginine vasopressin is a hormone that stimulates male bonding and guarding of offspring – another hugely important factor in bonding and creating a family. But what counteracts this is testosterone – testosterone is associated with libido, as well as high quality genes, which attract women. Testosterone fights against oxytocin and arginine vasopressin, especially in situations where…

Why Women Want Married Men
Blog / 08/26/2014

Why Women Want Married Men By Kajay Williams   If your spouse is having an affair, you might automatically think that the “other woman” is someone in a similar position to your spouse – attached and cheating on their partner. But what you might not realize is that your spouse could be cheating on you with a woman who knew right from the very beginning that he was married – and that’s why she chose him. A recent study has shown that 90% of single women questioned were sexually interested in a man that they believed was married – but that figure dropped back down to 59% when the single women were told he was single. This tells us that married, a man is more attractive than he is single – but why? One of the main reasons that women may actively seek out married men is because it gives them breathing room. A married man is already in a committed relationship with someone else, meaning that the other woman won’t have any demands made on her. She doesn’t have to worry about being committed to her partner and she doesn’t have to answer to him when she wants to…

The #1 Unforgivable Sin Most Women Commit In A Relationship
Blog / 08/16/2014

The #1 Unforgivable Sin Most Women Commit In A Relationship   What if I were to tell you that there’s an unforgivable sin almost every woman commits around a man? What if I were to tell you that hundreds of millions of women do this EVERYDAY with their man? What if I further told you that most women who do this have no idea that they’re committing a horrible sin? Are you wondering if you do it too? Before I talk about this sin, I’d like to share a story with you… It’s a story about Cindy & Matt. They have been in a relationship for the last 2 years. They always had a great connection, it was like they were made for each other but lately things aren’t the same. Cindy is very worried…She can sense that Matt is a lot more “inside his head” lately, he isn’t being as open as he used to be. She misses the comfort of the days when she could talk about something & genuinely connect with him. But now she is living a life of quite desperation because Matt’s behavior is confusing her, She is feeling a lot more out of control,…

Signs Your Spouse Is Having A Cyber Affair
Blog / 08/07/2014

Signs Your Spouse Is Having A Cyber Affair By Kajay Williams   Internet use is growing steadily year on year and most homes now have a computer with internet access. But although the internet has many benefits, it can also bring infidelity right into the family home via chat rooms, social networking sites and message boards. Although a cyber affair may not ever involve any physical contact, it involves the same feelings as other types of affairs – secrecy, fantasy, excitement, as well as rationalization of the feelings the individual is having about their online contact. Despite the fact that an online affair may never, ever involve actual physical intimacy, it can have the potential to be just as devastating as a physical affair. Because internet affairs are a fairly new phenomenon, there is no set definition – and whether or not you believe your spouse is having a cyber affair or not will depend on the boundaries that you have set within your relationship. However, cyber affairs tend to include intimate conversations, often of an emotionally-charged or sexually-charged nature, cybersex or mutual masturbation sessions. Kimberly Young, a professor who directs the Center for Internet Addiction Recovery sees more women…

If She’s Not Sleeping with You, Do This
Blog / 07/24/2014

If She’s Not Sleeping with You, Do This   Hey, Let’s get to it – I want to talk about something that a ton of guys struggle with… I knew a guy named Mark who did everything in life to try to attract the women he wanted. He would drop mountains of cash on dates, buy women tons of drinks, and work at a hard job because he wanted enough money to be attractive to women. He wanted to attract the woman of his dreams without having to do anything weird, uncomfortable, or embarrassing. And yet, every time he was out in public with a woman he felt like he was about to be embarrassed… that she was going to publicly reject him and humiliate him… The worst part for Mark was when he thought things were going well and he was getting somewhere with a woman… he would meet someone really attractive and take her out on dates and think that maybe they were going to sleep together… And she would string things along… and use him for his money and for the dates he spent so much cash on… teasing him with the possibility of sleeping together but…

Key to Keeping Him Insanely Addicted To You (Sinful But Works!)
Blog / 07/24/2014

Key to Keeping Him Insanely Addicted To You (Sinful But Works!) These days, many women admittedly find that they can no longer keep a man’s attention. Even more shocking, is the fact that many women find they struggle to keep a man’s attention for even 5 minutes, EVEN if she’s known him for years. We’ve reached the shockingly defining moment in our era, where many women have easily experienced a guy who would have an amazing night with them, and tell them just how great they were…. only to never call back after. Gone are the days where men spent weeks, months, and even years chasing down a woman, or trying to get her attention. Instead, we find, almost comically, that women instead have taken over the role of the chasers, in a desperate bid to garner even just a tiny amount of affection. And of course nobody could blame a woman for practically hunting down and clamping onto a man in this day and age, where the average attention span of an adult has now reached a mere 3 seconds. To put it bluntly….a goldfish has a longer attention span now, than the average modern man. But we can’t…

Why Women Freak Out & Unknowingly Do Things Which Push A Man Away
Blog / 07/24/2014

Why Women Freak Out & Unknowingly Do Things Which Push A Man Away   Do you know what happens when a woman goes through a difficult situation with a man? She keeps freaking out…I call it the freak out syndrome. This is how the cycle runs… A woman finds herself in a difficult situation with a man… She doesn’t understand why he’s doing what he’s doing… She then tries to do what she assumes is the right thing but it doesn’t work… She then feels stuck & eventually freaks out. It’s no surprise why so many women are leading a life of silent desperation. The point I am trying to make here is that when women drive themselves completely nuts by freaking out over and over again, it messes them up completely over time. But it doesn’t stop here… In fact! Under such a situation a woman unknowingly does things which push a man further away… Here are the two most common routes women take… 1- They first try to convince a man. 2- And when the first option doesn’t work, they try to argue their way into his head. I don’t know why but women have this inner belief…

Signs of Cheating in a Long Distance Relationship
Blog / 07/19/2014

Signs of Cheating in a Long Distance Relationship By Kajay Williams   A long distance relationship can be fun and exciting. But one of the hardest things about a relationship that is played out over a long distance is the lack of closeness and intimacy, which can lead to cheating. It can be more difficult to spot cheating in a long distance relationship, as the lack of closeness makes it harder to monitor the behavior of your loved one. But there are a few signals to watch out for – here are some warning signs that your long distance relationship could be breaking down. Unavailability If your partner suddenly becomes unavailable, or changes their pattern of availability, it could indicate that they are cheating. If you usually keep in touch with phone calls every day, but the phone calls drop off to the occasional text or e-mail, it could be a warning sign, especially if you try to discuss their sudden unavailability and they become defensive. Absence and avoidance Most couples spend time together over the holidays, such as Christmas and New Year, and when they have extended time off work. But if your partner suddenly needs to go on…

7 Reasons Why Women Cheat
Blog / 07/11/2014

7 Reasons Why Women Cheat By Kajay Williams   The reasons for cheating seem to differ widely from woman to woman. But dig a little deeper and you’ll see that the underlying reasons for women cheating on their partners tend to be very similar; they are looking to fill an emotional need, looking to use their new partner as a means from escaping their old partner or even just because they are hard-wired to want to seek the best genes for their future children. In this article, we explore the common reasons for women cheating on their partners. 1. Emotional Void Research suggests that women are more likely to have an affair due to an emotional reason, rather than a sexual reason. According to Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, women tend to have an emotional connection with their extra-marital partner, and they are also more likely to have an affair due to feeling lonely. Winifred Reilly, a licensed marriage therapist, says that women often tell her they have cheated on their partner because they just wanted someone to “look into their eyes and make them feel sexy again”. The difference between men and women is that women tend to be…

How To Save Your Marriage And Avoid Divorce
Blog / 07/05/2014

How To Save Your Marriage And Avoid Divorce   Today, many marriages are found to be ending in divorce. Marriage is a start of relation, while divorce is an end. After passing of few days or months of married, life, some conflicts and bitterness may get started. Sometimes, the couple began to think about the divorce. However, divorce changes social trends and causes adverse effects for the both the partners. Hence, it is always recommended to save marriage stop divorce. Marriage has a great importance in the life of every human being as it gives personal and social stability and it is also necessary to satisfy your emotional and physical needs. It may be essential to get the prestigious social status as living a single or getting separated is not accepted by the society in some countries. It is not easy for a man or a woman to live alone whole life. After divorce, the individual may have to face physical, psychological and economical problems. The family life of the person is totally collapsed. Divorce also can cause sexual deprivation. Separation or divorce of the parents affects a lot to the children. It may give rise to psychological problems which…